Friday, September 3rd, 2010

Class of 1964


If you would like to post an obituary of a San Dieguito alumnus, please let us know.

Gary Berryman
Cheryl Bensfield
Ann Boatman
Sandra Boots
Mike Breceda
James Bryant
William Carney
MaryLou Corley
Ray Curley
Loretta Drew
Nicholas Harold Eaton
January 21, 1946 to May 12, 2010

Nick Eaton Eulogy

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Obituary submitted by Bill Hughes

Edith Elvestad
Laura Lee Ely
Robert Entzminger
Douglas Erickson
Robert Gonzales
Joe Graciano
Trudy Hey
Joan Kellett
Tommy Lewis

NCTimes.com Californian.com
Remembering Tommy Lewis

By GARY HYVONEN – For the North County Times

OCEANSIDE —- When Tommy Lewis fell off his surfboard sometime around Thanksgiving, his girlfriend said he panicked. Sure, the water was cold and he absolutely couldn’t stand cold water —- but it was more than that.

“He just never falls off his board,” said Mary Beth Howard, who had lived with Lewis the past 10 years. “He was such an accomplished surfer. He knew something was wrong.”

Lewis, it turned out, was suffering from inoperable brain cancer. He passed away Jan. 2 in his Oceanside home. He was 62.

Just four months ago, Lewis took the championship in his age group at the prestigious Malibu Classic surf contest.

“It was like he was 19 years old again,” Howard said of his recent performance. “This all happened so fast.

“His last words to me were, ‘I want to marry you,’ ” she added. “I started crying. What a fabulous man. You talk about charisma, oh my God! Talk to anyone who knew him and they will tell you how he helped them and made life better for them.”

The beach community will remember Lewis as a legendary longboard surfer and a successful commercial fisherman, as well as for the “amazing” surfboards he shaped.

His sister said he certainly was all that, but more than anything he was a free spirit who had a live-long love affair with the ocean.

“He had a real simple life,” said Sandra Undraitis. “He always got to do what he wanted and not many people can say that. He marched to his own drum. He didn’t follow the rules.”

Tommy Richard Lewis was born Sept. 4, 1946, in La Jolla. He was the younger of Stan and Mae Lewis’ two children. He grew up in Cardiff-by-the-Sea, in a house on Chesterfield behind a hotel, post office and grocery store.

His father was a commercial fisherman and when Tommy reached the third grade he and his sister would sell fish once a week by pulling a wagon up and down the unpaved streets.

“We did real well at it, but Tommy didn’t like it,” said Undraitis, 64. “He wanted to be at the beach. He loved the beach more than anything.

“If it was a nice day, my mom would let him stay home from school and go to the beach,” Undraitis added. “He wasn’t an ordinary kid. He was going to be a fisherman and school didn’t matter to him.”

Lewis did graduate from San Dieguito High in 1964 but by then he already was making surfboards and fishing for a living.

He competed on surf teams and got to travel. His favorite places were Hawaii, Puerto Rico and Mexico. He eventually built a house in Todos Santos, Baja, Mexico, where he made his part-time home the past six years.

Besides fishing, he ran a quasi surf shop from his backyard, which is how he met Howard after his marriage ended.

Howard lived in San Clemente and surfed regularly at San Onofre. One day her board needed repairing and a fellow surfer recommended her to Lewis.

“He brought me down to Tommy’s house and I never left,” Howard said. The couple eventually moved to Oceanside.

Lewis made a name for himself in surfing, even though he didn’t enter many contests “because he didn’t like anything that was structured,” his sister said.

He did win the fabled Stone Steps Beach Encinitas Surfing Contest in the 1970s, and along the way impressed fellow surfers with his wave knowledge and timing, and thrilled spectators with his switch-stance roundhouse cutbacks.

At the recent Malibu event, he turned some heads. One of them belonged to Scott Bass, one of the judges.

“It was incredible,” said Bass. “Tommy was in great form. He was stoked to win that. He was well-known around here, but to go up to Malibu and compete against some of the legends up there, and beat them —- he was pretty stoked.

“He may have been a laid-back dude who didn’t do a whole lot of competitions, but he was ultra-competitive when he did enter a contest,” Bass added.

Bass, 43, said he relished the times in the past few years that he was able to spend with Lewis after they became teammates on the Swami Surfing Association squad.

Bass said he grew up in Del Mar practically idolizing the guy. He said Lewis took after his father, Stan, a well-known surfer and fisherman “who was cut from the cloth of Hemingway.”

“I looked up to Tommy,” Bass said. “He was the red-hot surfer from the area.”

Lewis’ sister said that when the end was near, she discussed with him plans to have his ashes scattered at sea.

“He said, ‘OK, but wait till the water is warm’ ” Undraitis said. “He didn’t like cold water. That’s why he went to Hawaii so much.”

A memorial service and a paddle-out ceremony will take place at Pipes in Cardiff at a future date, sometime after the weather warms, Undraitis said.

She also said a similar celebration will be held at his favorite surf break by his home in Todos Santos.

Lewis is survived by his longtime girlfriend, Mary Beth Howard; daughters Amanda Lewis and Jessie Maynard; sister Sandra Undraitis, a niece and a nephew.

North County Times Obituaries published 1/13/2009

Luis Margetti
DENNIS MARKHAM

OCEANSIDE — Dennis Markham, 59, died of lymphoma, Thursday, Dec. 22, 2005.

Born Aug. 26, 1946, in Hollywood, he lived in Oceanside for 18 years. He worked at Peregnne Systems. He was a member of the Oceanside Seventh-day Adventist Church. He enjoyed surfing and golfing.

Mr. Markham is survived by his wife of 32 years, Judith Markham of Oceanside; son Zac of Oceanside; and daughters Rachelle and Melia, both of Oceanside.

A memorial will be held at a later date at the Oceanside Seventh-day Adventist Church.

Accu-Care Cremation is handling arrangements.

North County Times, published January 5, 2006, submitted by Len Hayashi.

Bill Moon
Donna Muto
Bob Neal
Robert Rowland
Donna Simpson
Nancy Small
Lloyd Thomas
Carol Tilley
JOSEPH MICHAEL TWOREK

Captain Joseph Michael Tworek
1946 – 1971

“Mike” Tworek was an Army helicopter pilot — and a very good one.

During his tour in Vietnam with the 1st Air Cavalry, he was awarded 33 Air Medals, received the Bronze Star and the Silver Star; was cited for bravery and awarded the Distinguished Flying Cross for rescuing the crew of another helicopter shot down in enemy territory.

Returning from Vietnam in late 1969, he was assigned to Fort Rucker, Alabama, as an advanced instrument instructor. Two years later he was killed in a tragic mid-air night collision with another helicopter during “under the hood” training. He would have received his BA degree the following March from Troy University. He now rests in El Camino Memorial Park in San Diego.

—Source: City of Solana Beach Veterans Memorial & Dedication Program, co-hosted by: Solana Beach Civic & Historical Society, Veterans of Foreign Wars – Post 5431, March 25, 2009. Submitted by Len Hayashi

MARSHA WANGSNESS (COLEMAN)

Marsha Coleman, 59

ESCONDIDO – Marsha Wangsness Coleman, 59, died of leukemia, Saturday, Aug. 5, 2006, at the City of Hope in Duarte.

Born Nov. 27, 1946, in San Diego, she lived in Escondido for 10 years. She was a member of the Valley Center Republican Women’s Club and the Santa Margarita Women’s Golf Club. She was a 2005 Castle Creek Women’s golf champion.

Mrs. Coleman is survived by her husband of 28 years, Frederick Coleman of Escondido; son and daughter-in-law David and Kristen Dennis of San Diego; daughter and son-in-law Shea and August Fluegge Jr. of Valley Center; brother Mark Wangsness of Pahoa, Hawaii; sister and brother-in-law Kim and Paul Consol of Guinda; and three grandchildren.

A memorial service is scheduled for 3:30 p.m. Friday, Aug. 11, at Grace Lutheran Church in Escondido.

The family suggests donations to the Leukemia and Lymphoma Society, 9150 Chesapeake, Suite 100, San Diego, CA 92123.

Alhiser-Comer Mortuary is handling arrangements.

North County Times Obituaries published 08/09/2006

Joel Wiley
Roneen Worden
Robert Zerfus